All research2025 Survey · 1,100 Parents · First Year with Baby

Over 100 Sleepless Nights — Why Sleep Deprivation Means More Than Just Fatigue

In early 2025, we surveyed 1,100 parents about their sleep in their baby’s first year. The results confirm what so many parents already feel — but rarely see put into numbers.

The numbers

109nights

equivalent sleepless nights in the first year

1,126times

woken up by their baby per year

5.5hours

average sleep per night — 2.5 hours less than before

76%

of parents rarely or never manage to nap during the day

48%

often or always feel stressed because of their baby’s sleep

35%

often or always feel lonely during nighttime care

912 lost hours of sleep

On average, parents sleep only 5.5 hours per night — 2.5 hours less than before their baby was born. Over the course of a year, this adds up to 912 lost hours of sleep, equivalent to 38 full days.

In other words: parents lose the equivalent of 109 sleepless nights within just twelve months.

Parents in the first year with baby

Parents in Sleep Crisis

How drastically sleep duration drops for parents in the first year.

Before BirthSleep in the FirstYear of ParenthoodHours of Sleep per Night1 Year

Survey · 1,100 participants · Feb 2025 · Land of Little Dreamers

Constant wake-ups

Parents wake up an average of 3.1 times per night to care for their baby — more than 1,126 interruptions per year.

And even when the baby falls back asleep, parents don’t immediately do so. On average it takes them 16 minutes to fall asleep again.

Parents in the first year with baby

109 Sleepless Nights

In the first year, parents lose an average of 912 hours of sleep — the equivalent of 109 full sleepless nights.

365 nights in a year

Survey · 1,100 participants · Feb 2025 · Land of Little Dreamers

Catching up on sleep? Mostly impossible.

“Just sleep when the baby sleeps” — but in reality, this doesn’t work for most parents.

  • ·76% of parents rarely or never take naps during the day.
  • ·On average, parents manage to lie down for a nap only once per week.

Parents in the first year with baby

Not just short —
also fragmented

In the first year, parents experience more than 1,126 nighttime interruptions.

Survey · 1,100 participants · Feb 2025 · Land of Little Dreamers

Less sleep than on-call doctors

With just 5.5 hours of average sleep per night, parents in the first year sleep less than almost every professional group — including astronauts, soldiers, and on-call doctors.

Parents in the first year with baby

Sleep Comparison

Parents in the first year sleep less than on-call doctors.

Toddlers (1–3 years)
Teenagers (14–17 years)
Professional athletes in training
Average adults
On-call doctors
Shift workers
Astronauts on the ISS
Active duty soldiers
Parents in the first year
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Hours of sleep per night

Survey · 1,100 participants · Feb 2025 · Land of Little Dreamers

Nearly 11 full days carrying a baby to sleep

Parents spend an average of 10.4 minutes per sleep onset carrying their baby — nearly 11 full days per year.

Parents in the first year with baby

Daily Life in the First Year

Converted into full days, this is how much time parents spend in the first year...

Carrying baby to sleep
Lying awake, waiting for sleep
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Days per year

On average, parents spend about one full day per month carrying their baby to sleep and another full day lying awake trying to fall back asleep.

Survey · 1,100 participants · Feb 2025 · Land of Little Dreamers

More than just fatigue

Insufficient sleep isn’t just a physical challenge. Our survey shows it also places a significant emotional burden on parents:

Parents in the first year with baby

Nighttime Struggles

48%

of parents often or always feel stressed because their baby doesn’t sleep well.

22%

of parents often or always feel anxious before bedtime (only 19.8% go to bed feeling relaxed).

35%

of parents often or always feel lonely during nighttime care.

42%

of parents often or very often feel exhausted or overwhelmed.

Sleep deprivation is far more than just tiredness — it brings stress, anxiety, loneliness, and exhaustion, affecting parents both physically and emotionally.

Survey · 1,100 participants · Feb 2025 · Land of Little Dreamers

Survey conducted in February 2025. 1,100 parents in their baby’s first year participated. Published by Land of Little Dreamers (Babyschlummerland). Data reflects self-reported experiences.

Conclusion

Sleep deprivation is not just a phase —
it’s a challenge that pushes parents to their limits.

These numbers show that what many parents feel as a personal weakness is actually a systemic, measurable problem. You are not alone — and there are gentle, effective ways through it.